| windslipper wrote: |
| A man in Oklahoma City said he was attacked for his bologna and cheese sandwich. Police say 24-year-old Roger Hamilton told them he was sitting on a bus station bench Wednesday, about to put mayonnaise on his sandwich, when another man began staring at him.
Hamilton told police that the man then punched him in the mouth and grabbed his sandwich and left. Police said Hamilton has a swollen lip and his face was covered in blood. The police report listed the value of the sandwich at 76 cents. Police have not found the attacker. ...and we thought we had it bad! D |
| rdb wrote: |
| Sadly, that sort of hunger is fairly common in this country.
People who are homeless may go for a couple of days a week without food. Unless they are lucky, they may only get one meal a day at that. One thing that I've seen in some areas and that I strongly advocate is a coordinated effort to help those people. In some cases, the groups that help people who are homeless will all provide food on essentially the same days- so that the person has to choose where they will go and miss out on others. People who see someone who is homeless shouldn't be disgusted- they should be humbled and thankful, because almost everyone is only a few paychecks away from homelessness. |
| littlestar wrote: |
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I like to share...you'd think I was born in the depression the way I hang onto stuff....ask Di...I had lingerie that was 3 sizes too small for me,since I grew a big azz, but new and useful for the girls |
| CaptJTK wrote: | ||
I'm in the same mindset, except I don't hang onto stuff. I just don't buy it. If I'm out and I see something, the first question that comes to mind is "do I really NEED that"? If the answer is no, I don't get it. I've taught the kids to think that way also, and decide what's really important and what's not. I guess I'm just cheap, right? There is one thing that I hang onto, cars. My car is 17 years old, still runs good, looks good, so why bother with a car payment. And the price of a new Mercedes??? |
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I have always done this . It is a great disipline. The only one of my kids that didnt follow my teaching, was a see it, want it, buy it. and now she is in terrible financial trouble, IN the US. Not Cheap at all. just very wise:) Daisy |
| rdb wrote: |
| I remember something about an organization that takes bikes and gets them to kids.
If you don't mind telling me what town/city you live in, I could do some checking. I wouldn't just give those to any organization that helps the poor- some of them take the better stuff and sell it for a profit (which doesn't usually trickle down to the people they're supposed to be helping). |
| CaptJTK wrote: |
| What country are you from Shatrules? |
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That's too bad about your daughter Daisy, and thank you for the compliment. My oldest was getting like that, so I forced her to get a job a few months back and start paying for her own stuff. I think it's working. Now when she goes shopping, she calculates how many hours of work it takes to pay for something, and I've noticed the overindulging has stopped. For me, there's 2 things I spend money on, music (CD's) and lessons. Every other week when I get paid, I buy myself a few new CD's. Our Barnes & Noble has great blues/jazz/cajun section, and that's a passion. When I really want to go overboard I go into NYC to J&R Music world, three stories of every kind of music. That's only once or twice a year. I also pay my piano teacher, but that's a must. The piano is how I unwind. My dream job (someday when I retire) is to be that old guy that plays piano in the lobby of the hotel bar..... |
| windslipper wrote: |
| IBM has layed off hundreds here in New York of late... and there are no jobs to replace their incomes....
Sad state of affairs... to be sure.... D |
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It's the same here. I keep hearing about how the economy is turning around, but every time I turn on the news, another company is going down. There are dozens of empty buildings indicating lost jobs, just in our area. Our clients and customers are going under. I've never seen anything like this. |
| windslipper wrote: |
| Here in upstate NY the economy continues to worsen every day...
Families and Children without food is becoming a reality for many...and welfare etc. is getting harder and harder to qualify for.... One can only imagine what the future may bring... Dan |
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Sad state of affairs. |
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Hey Stephanie, Morris County here, and yea, it's appalling. We're an hour out on the midtown direct. They even put the high-low cars on the line and there's nobody on the trains. Everyone's out of work. My brother was out for about 6 months last year, finally found a job, got married in the first week of May this year, came back from his honeymoon and was told to clear out. He was let go. You gotta wonder how those people up in Bergen county are fairing, in Alpine, those mansions......poor bastards. We have something in common, besides being from Jersey. My given name is Stephen, Steve for short. |
| littlestar wrote: |
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I worry more about Stephanie,and her Family, eating Dog Food...I hope it had gravy on it....sorry, it's not funny |
| Stephanie wrote: | ||
Then why did you make the gravy crack in the first place? Do you think I'm the only person to have to resort to eating dog food? I'm not and it's been done plenty of times in the past... and plenty of times today. It beats going hungry entirely. |
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Dog food BTW is sometimes animals that have TB and cancer , My daughter and daughter inlaw both worked when younger in a meat works, so be careful. |
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I feel for all those with hardships, believe me my friends I have been there. and hope is your only crutch Take care . and good luck. I know several on this forum are doing it tough. as is my daughter in the US. Daisy |
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Like I said, it beats going hungry entirely. I can't worry about cancer or any other disease over worrying about an empty stomach. If I must choose between a completely empty stomach NOW and couple of weeks before starving dead and possibly cancer or another disease later... and that's just a 'maybe' -- I will have to choose for the immediate survival and deal with other things later. Otherwise, there will be no later. I never thought that - at the age of 48 - I'd have been reduced to this. I grew up solidly middle class and never 'wanted' for anything. I spent most of my marriage wealthy. Now, hubby at 63 and I at 48, are facing starvation. This is unbelievable. Just totally unbelievable.
Oh, I'm quite aware that I'm hardly alone. Many of my immediate neighbors are in the same boat as I. We have pooled our food to make community suppers for us all that are better than what each of us would have been able to make alone. Yet, we still can't make ends meet and eat healthily. Today I must make yet another tough choice: Do I buy my Tramadol or buy my husband's blood pressure medicine? I don't have enough to buy both. I can only have one until next Friday... If his blood pressure rises, he could die. If I don't alleviate my chronic pain, I could make another suicide attempt, possibly, if I can't take the pain any longer. I've attempted suicide 4 times already, in the past 22 years. I'm not suicidal right now, but it's quite possible that, after a week of unmitigated pain, I will be. I'm all too aware of the potential consequences. How do I choose which med to buy? I suppose it's gonna have to be hubby's blood pressure medicine. That's the more immediate threat, at the moment. |
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I write about this subject frequently but it's distant to me. Following this thread makes it real. Thank you for your honesty and a different perspective. N |
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Have you tried with the Pharmaceutical Companies to see if you may get a lower price or FREE Prescriptions?....Also in working with people in situations like yours...YES, I work in the field...a contact to Mental Health Services may yield help, because of the suicide threat. Have you already asked for generic types of meds, in order to get reduced price at Walgreens or WalMart ? No churches in your area have funds for help? |
| Stephanie wrote: |
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So far, no one, including my own doctors, has given much concern to whether or not I try to commit suicide again. No one much cares. I'm no just saying that in depression... I'm not actually that depressed right now, despite all of our financial woes. |
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That too has been my experience. They don't care, except that you pay their bills. All driven by the profit motive. I'm fighting to get that changed. We need a system that takes care of EVERYONE, irregardless of their financial situation. |
| Cat wrote: |
| Stephanie, I think what LS might have been referring to is contacting the actual pharmaceutical companies that manufacture the prescription meds that you and your hubby take. That might be harder, if the meds are generic, so they don't hold a patent.
I know that the makers of Rituxan, will help with costs for those that can't afford the med, or whose insurance won't pay. Maybe the makers of some of your meds might do the same, or possibly might know of some program that would help? Might be worth a shot, anyway. I'm sorry you're in this situation. Been there myself, and it just sucks. |
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I'm sorry. Maybe I wasn't clear in my reply to LS. Because my sister IS a pharmacologist, and has other pharmacological contacts in other pharmaceutical companies besides the one she works for, I have tried that already. First - since there is a generic for each of our particular meds, no one cares about helping someone like me out. Their attitude is that I can always go to the other comany to beg for my pills; they're not responsible to me for anything. I probably would be better off if there weren't generics for my meds... but then, I wouldn't be able to afford them at all. Second - there are too many people who can't afford their meds, right now; they can't possibly help everyone, so they help no one. At least, that's what they're telling me. The upshot is what you said, and I've already said: It sux. |
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Excuse my ignorance but are you really saying that if you lose your job through no fault of your own, you then lose entitlement to health care? Surely not! Also, don't you get unemployment benefits to obviate the need to eat dog food? Sounds like the Grapes of Wrath! |
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sorry to seem dim, just can't get my head round it! I'm not familiar with the unemployment benefit system, as I haven't had to use it, touch wood! I could look it up if you're interested. BTW, I'm not very good at Maths, but isn't $575 a week more than $1600 a month?? |
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I wish I had 575 a week! Believe it or not, hubby and me could live very nicely on that. |
| SMB wrote: |
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Of course, we don't have children. Our monthly expenses are around 500.00 monthly, so heck, I could squirrel away 3 weeks worth of income and save for a new car, or even a new home. |
| Stephanie wrote: | ||
Do you have a landline telephone? Pay electric and/or gas bills? Have or pay for health insurance coverage? Have a car or cars? Pay insurance on them? Own or rent? Hubby is a senior, and I am handicapped with EDS: Our medical bills are significantly higher than those of healthy younger people. I'm not attacking you. But if *I* can live on this income where YOU live - thenI'm moving there. |

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| I'm sorry, but I've lived in Australia. I didn't hate it there, but it had it's share of problems. My mother-in-law died because of the poor health care system, and my sister-in-law had a stroke because of it. My friend almost died in childbirth, and I could go on. I saw poor people, racism, all the things I've seen everywhere else. |
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I didnt say it was perfect Just we have a better deal:) somtimes you just stand your ground. Daisy |
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| The Medicare levy is 1.2% of your wages and high income earners who choose not to have their own insurance pay an extra 1% so the most you can pay is 2.2% of your wages on medical.
This covers everything except dental and ambulance cover which costs us about $150 per year for the family, the ambulance cover includes helicopter and air transport even from the snowfields. Cat I would love to know what area in Australia you lived, I suspect Sydney because the Hospital system there is terrible, we are very fortunate here to have a top hospital and very good acces to doctors, much better than most country towns. We have a very good standard of living here, the envy of many. No one starves. |
| Stephanie wrote: | ||
Yes, but I don't happen to think that fully socialized medicine is the right way. Socalized medicine doesn't work "right" in countries where it exists now. What will make that different here in the USA? |
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You do realise that Cuba has the same life expectancy as the USA and that our infant mortality rate is lower than yours, as is that of many other countries, mostly with "socialised" or "fair" as we like to call it, medicine? |
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| my fellow citizens lived in fear |
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| Have to disagree with you there, Bob! I think there are definitely some conditions that cause weight gain and for some people food is an addiction like any other, but most people who are significantly overweight eat too much of the wrong things and don't do enough exercise. Some people have slower metabolisms, but if you take in less than you expend, you will lose weight... |
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| Have to disagree with you there, Bob! I think there are definitely some conditions that cause weight gain and for some people food is an addiction like any other, but most people who are significantly overweight eat too much of the wrong things and don't do enough exercise. Some people have slower metabolisms, but if you take in less than you expend, you will lose weight... |
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I only have half of a thyroid, so it is very hard for me to loose weight. I have been loosing, but very, very slowly. The kind of diet that would help me best is somewhat expensive, so I have had to compromise. Also, stress can interfere with digestion, causing the body not to absorb the nutrients properly. |
| rdb wrote: |
| JT- is obesity a SYMPTOM or a CAUSE???
If you say cause- you're blaming the victim. If you say SYMPTOM, you've at least read some of the research. Medically caused obesity is far more prevalent than the average citizen would think. Based upon my own observations, most morbidly obese people eat far less than skinny people- and are as active as they can stand to be. Fat is not synonymous with lazy or gluttonous. It IS synonymous with bad health- and I would argue that bad health STARTED the obesity. Indeed, I'm starting to be of the opinion that overeating only causes one to be a little overweight- and people who are really obese have some underlying medical condition that hasn't been diagnosed, much less treated. Let's put it this way- when I was finally diagnosed with FMS, the doctor told me that if the medicines worked, I would loose weight. I went from a TIGHT size 56 pants to size 44, and lost over a hundred pounds. The medicines, by the way- only help a little. I'd bet if they'd come up with something that took care of 100% of the symptoms I have, and that cured the source of the problem- my weight would drop to what would be considered normal. (I'd also love to experience some pain-free days- and the idea of a *mostly* pain-free life would be like heaven to me!!!) People sometimes still try to tell me "If you'd loose the weight, you'd feel better!" - which gets them a lecture about medically caused obesity if I'm in a good mood- and foul language and being told they are blindly prejudiced and IGNORANT if I'm not. I will also add that poor diet (a low-cost diet) is also associated with obesity. In this case- if you jump on the person for being fat, you're also punishing them for being poor. |
| Cat wrote: |
| I'm not going to encourage anyone to gain weight here, but I sometimes wonder if the whole weight issue isn't overplayed.
My dad is one of five boys. One of my uncles died of cancer in his 40's. Another two of my uncles are currently undergoing chemo, both are stage four cancer victims. Another uncle has successfully (hopefully) battled his cancer. My dad is the only one who has not developed cancer, and he is the healthiest of them all (and not the youngest). He is overweight by quite a bit, and will probably live the longest. So, do I eat to live, or live to eat? Or do I just stuff chocolate into my mouth until such time as it either kills me, or I discover it causes us to live forever? Now there's a scary thought ~ me being around for a long time yet........ |
| rdb wrote: |
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There is something seriously wrong with a system where most of the citizens are only two or three paychecks away from being homeless at all times. |
| Stephanie wrote: | ||
How true that is! Sorry to anyone whose posts I may have missed in this thread - but it's getting out of hand and I'm pretty sure I missed a couple of pages. The bottom line, I think, is that no one's system is perfect, and people fall through the cracks of each. That, and that there is indeed something ver wrong when most of a country's citizens are 2 or 3 paychecks from being homeless and without basic medical care and don't have enough food & clothing to survive. |
| greenchick wrote: |
| Is there an interpreter in the house?? |